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The Myth Called Closure

Ever found yourself in a position where you were unconsciously chasing after closure? Or so needy of it that you hinged moving on on it? It’s not uncommon, a good lot of us have been there. Through loss, pain, hurt, break up or whatever situation it might have been, you hope for one more chance to do things differently, to make things right,  or simply  to talk things over .  Some people are lucky enough to have that, but sometimes, we do not get second chances no matter how hard we try or wish. Loss of a loved one is heavy, unanswered questions come with it. Unresolved issues come to the fore, but the finality of death is such that there is no second chance with the person who is no more. No one is ever prepared for loss, and g rief manifests in different ways. You might think you are fine one moment then the next you find yourself completely immersed in grief. The pain might never really go away, this is something you don’t get over, but you get past it with time and you learn to