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Have you ever been judged based on your nationality? This is something that Nigerians are very familiar with. The sad reality is that based on your nationality, you could be written off and denied countless opportunities from stereotypes attached. I've met people who after introduction instantly said '419' or 'Boko Haram'. This is something I can never get used to. I was reading an article about  Nigerian Fraudsters who were arrested in the U.A.E. This article like many others mentions that many internet fraud related acts could be traced to Nigeria. But this same article highlights the heavy blow the act of certain individuals deals on Nigerians. These quotes from the article were my favourite: "A lot of Nigerians are doing fantastic things all over the world, but they don't get as much media mileage as the guys doing bad things. It affects all the guys doing legitimate stuff especially in the tech space,". "A lot of foreign companies don't

Is there ever a time when the world is devoid of bad news? I've consciously been putting out my thoughts to encourage people to stay positive. Over the last week, here is what I shared on different days.   Feel free to leave some of your thoughts in the comment section, lets spread some positivity around.   Although reality checks are necessary every now and then, we sometimes may be too hard on ourselves and by extension others. Have the courage to be kind and have realistic expectations of yourself. Push yourself but don't forget to be loving to yourself, it makes a difference.   Our culture is quick to dismiss quiet, ordinary and hardworking people. We tend to place value on people based on public recognition. While fame has its place, ordinary has its place as well. Not everyone will have fame and fortune so ordinary should not be equated to unimportant   ·        Gratitude leads to joy…it is a recognition of