Behind the mask
Are there times when you question what all the efforts you have put into literally everything you have ever done in your life is for? It is especially distressing when all these efforts do not yield the kind of results the one putting in all the effort expects. Someone told me what her motivation was, she had lost a sense of who she was because it was consuming her, and requested that I publish this to help her heal... Sometimes people hide behind their fears and insecurities, they live life seeking approval or trying to prove a point to others by everything they do. Then at the end, they realise that all that energy was wasted and it was not worth it afterall. Fear, insecurity, those are monsters and those feelings can kill. They can kill your drive or drive you to your ruin. Behind smiles, there could be deep issues of insecurity, hurt, pain, fear. Let it go, sometimes you just need to stop, breathe, re-evaluate your motives and deci