I had
taken being Nigerian for granted all my life. Being at home, there is almost no
reason to wear your nationality, that’s all one knows how to be anyway. Growing
older and being more in touch with the world, it seems to dawn on people that
‘your nationality is your pride’.
Visiting
different countries especially when family and friends live in such places can
be very different from living in them; you are made to feel at home and can be
shown around easily. There is a tendency to be shielded from some of the
experiences that one gets exposed to while living in the Diaspora. See my previous post, 'Tales from the Diaspora'
With
this realization, your nationality is either a blessing or a curse – at least
so it seems. I noticed that people of any country living abroad tend to be more
nationalist than those at home.