I was out with friends and it was an informal
gathering, so of course we were all free to tease each other. We jumped from
one topic to the other, and the banter just went on. We were on the topic of
food and milk came up, I mentioned that I hadn’t had milk in a while.
In
response to all the whys, “I am lactose intolerant and I have irritable bowel
syndrome”. I got such an incredulous stare from some of the people I was having
a chat with. What do you stand for or who are you really, some stares seemed to
say. Then there was a barrage of comments and questions. “I thought that was
only for white people?” “With you, I only hear sicknesses that I hear on TV.” “And
it’s not just her but in her family, some people are allergic to sea food, nuts
and other things.” “What kind of food do you eat apart from all these oyibo
dishes?” “You do not eat enough, you don’t eat pepper, you eat all these salads
and vegetables.” “You are too punctual and exercise too much when you are not
even fat!”